Isn’t that one of the things we often say to ourselves, I Hate When I Do That? As a general rule, I dislike using the word “hate” as casually as it is generally used. I prefer to reserve “hate” for someone or something more serious; for instance, I hate the guy who shot all those innocent people in Arizona (his name should ever be forgotten).  But, as the use of this phrase is so ubiquitous, I will make an exception and take this literary license this time and use the word “hate.”

Following is my list, my personal “I Hate When I Do Thats,” with special focus on parenting issues and marriage (men and women).  I’ve also included a few of my family’s “I Hate Whens.”  Feel free to e-mail me yours, which I may include in a future column ([email protected]).